POEM: From Husband to Late Wife on her Ceremony of Ashes

The Falls

We have gathered to perform 

“ANTYESTI”

The Last Rites

At your favourite spot 

‘The Falls’

With white water gushing from the mountains and turning into blue water stream surrounded by rocks and trees 

You would always say:

“what a beautiful spot”

That is why this is the chosen spot to perform your Ceremony of Ashes 

As we Disperse your Ashes into the Water 

Let your Spiritual Journey Begin 

Ashes to Ashes 

Water to Water 

Ocean to Ocean 

May you travel to the Great Oceans 

Let your Remains get washed of all Evils Diseases and Sufferings

You encountered in your life here 

Get Purified along the way 

Your next life be far better than this one 

Let tears from our cheeks flow with you 

Sorrow of “Letting You Go”

Your Final Persona 

May the Water Gods be with you 

Angels in Haven be on your side 

For Safe & Smooth Journey to the Oceans of this Earth 

May your Spirit be at Peace Happy Healthy Forever 

No Amount of Words can describe Our Loss 

Thank you for 50 years of Wonderful Time and Memories to Cherish  

Bon Voyage 

Tai-Chi

Tai-Chi is a Meditative Movement. A form of Martial Arts Emphasizes Slow Deliberate
Movement and Deep Breathing combines both Physical Exercise and Mental Focus promoting both physical and Mental Health

Tai-Chi is rooted in Taoist Philosophy from China.  Emphasizing Balance Harmony and Flow of Energy ( Qi ) within the Body 

Often recommended for Stress Reduction Enhancing Mental Clarity and overall Cardiovascular Health 

Slow flowing movements make Tai-Chi accessible to people of All Ages and Fitness Levels. Particularly beneficial to Adults to prevent Falls and Improve Mobility 

Tai- Chi encourages Mindfulness promoting Awareness of Body and Breath leading to Deeper Sense of Relaxation and Mental Clarity 

There are various Styles of Tai-Chi like Yang Chen Wu Sun each with its unique characteristics and forms. Practitioners learn series of movements that Flow Together Seamlessly 

Tai-Chi often practiced in Parks and Community Centres Fostering Sense of Community and Friendship 

Tai-Chi is a  Valuable Addition to a Balanced Lifestyle of Body and Mind 

Try Tai-Chi to Experience your Balance of Life ! 

GOLF

Game of Golf

To Most Golf is Rich Mans Sport

The Indulgence involves Membership of some Elite Club

It is beyond reach of affordability only Rich people can

Some of the Challenges:

The Play between You and Golf Ball and Layout of the Golf Course 

The Partnership or Adversarial Relationship you will have with your Game of Golf 

One has to Understand  Most Importantly how Golf is supposed to be played

Technique Rules & Etiquette of the Game 

14 Clubs are allowed in the Golf Bag

Drivers: 1, 3, 5

Irons: 3,4,5,6,7,8,9, 

Wipe dges: PW, + 2 more of choice

Hybrid: 1

From the Outset

It looks Easy to Pick up the Right Club and just hit the Golf Ball 

Nothing to it !

In Reality!

It is totally a Different Golf Ball Game

Why?

One has  to Learn & Practice how:

Each Club needs to be selected and Storked

Depending on what Segment of the Golf Game one is in:

From Tee off to Fairway play to Approach Green to Putting 

And moving on to the next hole 

To Navigate the challenging course 

To achieve Minimum Strokes or over the Par Strokes of Course 

Outcome of the Golf  Day !

Are You Happy or Totally Frustrated ?

How Did You Perform ?

Your  Play and Outcome

Determines Your Golf Day

It is believed Golf originated in 15th Century in Scotland and Historically St Andres Golf Course in Scotland is recognized as the “Home of Golf”

From the  well known names of Great Golfers of our Time. And the list is quite long 

One Golfer stands out !

Not only is He Great Talented Tenacious Resilient Person 

But also Renowned Golfer Earning Many Trophies to his Name 

Has Done An Outstanding Effort of Promoting the Golf Sport  to the Extent One can watch this Sport on Tv now and ordinary people without joining some Elite Club and paying hundreds in Membership Fee 

Can play the Sport of  Golf  Within their Means 

His name is The Tiger Woods  

Thank You Tiger 🐅 Woods 

You are our Hero!

For giving Us So Much Pleasure

In Watching You and Us Playing 

The Best of Best Sport on the Planet 

G O L F

One can play GOLF till you Can’t 

If played without being critical of your performance you can be out there on Beautiful Manicured Golf Courses 

Enjoy Nature Relaxed Happy Moments 

PRICELESS !

Try it & Enjoy

Wish you Lots of Fun & Pars Birdies & Eagles

GOLD PARKER PEN

I am Gold Plated Parker Fountain Pen. I am very Special.

In 1974 I was bought from the famous Self Ridges Store on Oxford Street in London UK by a Fine Lady with Good Taste

It was a Gift to her husband on his Birthday. He was very pleased to receive Me. A Beautiful Gold Parker Pen from her and Treasured the Gift.

Now year is 2024 and I am still in Husband’s possession but sadly the Beautiful Wife Passed this January.

50 years have passed by and I am still in Great Condition. I write well. I was got fresh Black Parker Ink. I have my original Fine Nib and writes Well.

The Husband writes with Me Poems paying Tribute to Honour his Beloved Wife. I am so proud I am being available and functional for this Worthy Cause.

There are Pens and Pens. But Belonging to the Parker Pens Family is very Unique. I was Founded in 1888 by George Parker and still today is the Most Recognized Brand in the World

From this you can see I Have a Super Track Record of Quality and Reputation

I am The Parker Pen of Choice and Distinction

Choose Me. I Will Not let You Down!

I AM THE GOLD PARKER PEN STORY

CALMNESS

Being CALM Feels Good.

NOT Stressful NOT Angry NOT Disturbed

BUT once CALMNESS is Disturbed or Agitated

HELL BREAKS OUT !

And Results can be from Varied to Distarous causing:

Stress, Anger, Not Happy, In a Fighting Mood, Looking for Trouble – Not Your Self

You become a Different Person You Don’t want to Be

So, How Do You Stay Calm – All the Time !

Practice & Practice CALMNESS by :

Listen First Think and React After and Talk Out if necessary

Be with the Moment, Focused and Positive Visualization

Forget and Forgive Small Things. Strive to build Meaningful Relationships with People who Respect each other and are going to be there ” at your hour of need “

Meditate and Focus on Calmness

Most of All Be Yourself ” CALMLY “

Mom Day 28th of the Month at 3.25 pm

Mom Day 28th of the Month at 3.25 pm

We stop what we are doing 

And Remember You with Heavy Heart

We light a candle Recall that Moment  With  your last 2 breaths left us

We were saddened to witness the stages leading to your Departure 

Time had Come for your next Journey 

We went through Mixed Feeling

Last 10 years of sufferings of your Body & Mind was over

Why did you have to Suffer so much from the Diseases which eventually has taken you away from us 

You Always have been a Pious Person 

Gentle Kind Soul

Why God had to put you through so much Agony & Pain

We miss you Mom

No Amount of Tears will Bring you Back

Only Good Memories to Cherish

Your Smiling photo Reminds us Your Presence 

Love You Mom Dearly

Hope you are Happy at Peace in your Next Life

Until Next Mom Day 28th of the Month at 3.25 pm

LIFE IS NOT A RACE

Life is NOT a RACE 

Don’t Rush to Finish Fast

It is a Journey 

Enjoy your Trip

Be Lucky to spend Time as a Human 

Be Healthy Dream Prosper 

Thankful for Successes & Achievements 

Find time to Pray & Meditate 

Be Yourself 

Respect others Especially 

Special Persons who  Care for You 

In Thick & Thin Times

Forget & Forgive Unpleasant Encounters 

It Frees the SOUL and gives PEACE 

Be Blessed & Thankful 

Take Time for Yourself 

Have Only ONE LIFE

Make the Best of Best for YOU 

Live for Today

Enjoy Each Moment as No Tomorrow 

LIFE IS NOT A RACE 

BUT INDEED A JOURNEY 

BE LUCKY TO BE ALIVE 

UnTimely Departure From Life

John: I had just gone for a Walk.

My usual routine at 11 am every morning. And be back for Lunch by 11.30 am.

But this time it was close to 11.45 am and had not returned home.

Wife: Sarah, saying to herself “ John is late today! Has not come back yet. And I have already put Lunch on the table.”

12.00 pm Sarah calls John’s Cell. No answer but she calls again and cell gets answered but it is not John’s voice. So Sarah hangs up saying “sorry wrong number” and calls again. This time voice at the other end says “ are you trying to reach Mr John….This is the Hospital. Have Bad News: John had a Massive Cardiac Arrest and has Passed Away. We were unable to Revive Him”

Sarah was Devastated! And Unwilling to Accept the Sad & Unthinkable News

Here is Imaginary Note from John to Sarah:

Sarah, my beloved; I did not mean to Shock you with the News of My Passing. I did not want to go like this.

I had just gone for a Walk as Usual.

But today I was the chosen one by the Almighty My Creator. My Time Had Come and it was my Turn to Depart from this Life. Luck was not on my side to seek an Extension. I did Not Suffer and it was a Quick Departure.

I had just gone for a Walk.

I know it will be Hard to Accept I am No Longer Around But I will be in Your Thoughts and Prayers Forever.

Cherish those Memories of the Good Times we had. All of us gathering and telling stories and Laughing Away.

Just Remember me AS I WAS.

I HAD JUST GONE FOR A WALK.

LIFE at Death Time

We are only given One Life

And that also at the Mercy of The Almighty

Our Creator – lucky to be given the Life as a Human to enjoy this Beautiful Earth and its Wonders

The Time we are Allowed to Spend here is also in the Hands of our Creator

When out Time is Up! Our Life is taken and Life Less body left behind

Our Loved Ones Mourn our Death and try to Reason our Passing

We prepare for the Funeral to do the Rituals

With heavy hearts we follow the Priest to carry out the Cremation. And then collect the Remains of our Loved one in the form of Ashes to be Dispersed at a Favourite Place of the loved one

Such is how we are Dealt With at Death

Enjoy your Only One Life to the Fullest as if No Tomorrow

Cherish Each Moment as a Priceless Nugget of Memories

Give your Passed Loved One Memorable Send Off to Next Journey and the Ashes Ceremony location of their Choice to Start the Spiritual Journey and Be At Peace Forever

Remember them Everyday and Pray for their Wellbeing

They will Always be With Us Forever If Thought Off, Missed, Honoured, Praised Respectfully

So Help Us Almighty!